Friday, July 22, 2011

Chances of getting pregnant, if he doesn't *awkward face* go that far?

Pre-*** has sperm. You could be pregnant. Take a test after your missed period. At least you learned valuable things from this, including not being so judgmental to pregnant teens and the less fortunate. They aren't all sluts, you know. Dont be so close minded.

Can Republican be arrested or impeached for trying to crash the economy?

Really? Really? Did you just accuse Republicans of sabotaging our economy for POLITICAL gain? What about our president pulling all of our troops out of Iraq in 2012 right before election time? As far as I remember Obama said he'd pull the troops out of Iraq immediately. What a coincidence that he wants to do it right before the election...and you criticize Republicans of political sabotage. Get your head out of the gutter.

Poll-In the video game Resident Evil Code Veronica who exactly is Veronica & and were there 2 Alexias?

Remember Alfred who was dressed like a woman and then his wig came off and then the self destruct system started.

Why do conservatives act like President Obama isn't trying?

Not his fault he inherited this mess from Bush and his capitalist cronies who are still sabotaging the economy because Obama won't allow lobbyists in the white house.

Why do commuters who are not rushing don't keep left of the escalators and give way to those who are rushing?

They have always caused jams at peak hours destructing orders. The MRT kept on announcing "love your ride" but have never announced "please keep left if you are not moving on the escalator", how to love our ride?

Need help with a Waiver for the National Guard?

I wrote a question a week ago explaining my situation so Im not going to go into great detail. I am trying to get a waiver to join the California Army National Guard. I received a RE 4 JHJ from the Navy Reserves in 2007. I know I messed up big time but I am serious about reenlisting and I also know its more than likely not going to happen but I am still holding out hope. Does anyone know if the California Guard is accepting waivers for RE 4s? Or if there are any states accepting RE 4s? I have wrote a letter to United States Army Recruiting Command a week ago explaining my situation and I am waiting for a response. Any help and advice would be appreciated.

(10pts..) First Kiss... How do I get him alone?

Okay so I work with this guy, He is 31 and I am 25. Now I know this is going to sound pretty pathetic, but we both want to kiss each other but are afraid to make the move. But I decided I am going to make the move. Since he is taking tooooo long to to do it. I think most of reason is because of our cultural differences, he's from Russia, and is more reserved. I am from US, and are bi-racial of course. American ways!!! lol.. But we are both christian and have same beliefs. We are in the property mgmt business. He does maintenance, I work in office! So what are some good ideas to get him alone so I can just kiss him. A good passionate one! BTW: Our employer knows about us and is perfectly fine with it!!! We are just shy people.

I always feel Inadequate around my Sister?

As much as it may pain you to hear this...there is no problem in this situation. Ultimately you wil have to see what is going on within yourselve which is creating the feelings you are expeiriencing. If you would prefer more details you can always send me a message. I sincerely wish you luck...

Someone please help, im so young and so very depressed?

it's sounds like your schizophrenic ]: it's a serious medical condition. but with some help, it can get better

Navy Separation ~ Relocation ~ What's the process?

I am separating from the Navy in October. My wife is moving early to our new "home" which is actually closer than our "home of record." Our plan is to move out by September. What I'm really looking for is some help on how to procure the move of my belongings. I have no orders or anything like that...I feel like I'm being ignored to tell you the truth. How can I best plan for this transition? A step-by-step answer is really what I need. I'm not ending my military service. I'm transferring to the Active Reserve and attending college. I'm looking for a smooth transition and it has been anything but so far. Please...those with experience...let me know what to expect and how to arrange the move.

Is something wrong with me?

All I've had all day is half a bagel and a pretzel it's 7:20 at night. I have a really bad stomach acke. But it's not hunger pains it's cramps. I've made myself throw up twice before but I don't know it that has anything to do with it. I've been really spaced out lately. And extremely depressed I've had some trouble with my home life. So I tend to self destruct. Should I talk to my doctor? Do you think these are related? I've been having random pains. What's wrong with me?

Men, if you invite a lady to your apartment on a date?

Say you've been out four times and havn't kissed yet. She seems a bit reserved but probably interested in you as she always replies to your messages and even invited you on one of the dates. Say you invite her to your house for the fifth date. Are you expecting her to sleep with you? You're both in your 40s, single without children.

Should I be eating back calories burned from exercise?

I'm currently trying to lose weight and my calorie goal is about 1300 per day. I exercise a lot and most days I burn 600 or so calories. Is it essential to eat back these calories? Will it sabotage my weight loss if I don't? I haven't been eating them back for a little over a month now and just read that I should be. Have I put my body into starvation mode? Sorry for all the questions but what should I do!?

Can I switch from air force reserves to active duty?

I was active duty security forces for 4 years but i got out and joined the reserves. I've been in the reserves for six months and I want to go back active. is it possible? and how hard is it?

Someone really good with nutrition please help me with my diet plan!?

just remember to keep working out. Sweat LOTS, thats where you are going to burn off that fat and keep hydrated. with your diet plan i think you should consume a little more calories because its good your not eating too much but you want to stay healthy and not under eat, you need to burn off more calories than you eat thats the trick to weight loss. i mean eat some more nuts because they have lots of protein and good fats. almonds are the best because they do not have too much sodium. Jut remember to stick with it and that by not doing it the right way your only cheating yourself.

My mom thinks im suicidal help!?

i took 40 benadryl pills and she now thinks that i was trying to self destruct . i have told her that i wasnt , and she wont believe me, she then says "you subconciously were". she thinks im crazy for doing this but im NOT!!!! i just did it to see what it would feel like, i was bored and just did it at night time and thought it would wear off in the morning and nobody would notice, unfortunately, i was still intoxicated in the morning and afternoon the next day, she wanted to take me to the hospital. why does she think im suicidal. im not crazy or suicidal or anything like that , i just wanted to try it for recreational purpose, my mom dont believe me when i tell her that i did it for this purpose

...Is he worth it, guys?

Just ask him if he likes this other girl and tell him you want the truth. And if he doesn't like this other girl ask him if he could see you and him being together in the future. If he does like this other girl tell him that you really like him a lot. Hope I helped (:

How do I get the intelligence of my brain & harness the power to alter my appearance to get the inferior women?

look in the mirror, see what you saw, take the saw and saw a desk in half..2 half's make a hole..go out the hole....

Can I fix my Nintendo Ds Lite?

I've had my fair share of DS problems, just take it to a nintendo store and they'll fix it, the price varies but it's never more than it costs brand new. If they think it's completely busted, then it probably is. Then you probably need a new one, not sure if this helps or not.

Why is he trying to sabotage my success?

He did a degree program, I did a non degree program for 2 years and went to college for 2.5 years. I didn't get a degree but I went to school for a long time. Well I finished my last project and now I'm looking for another IT job. I'm a professional and my boyfriend considers himself inferior to me. I know software he doesn't even know and he asks me for help with code often. Well every time a good job offer comes along he puts me down and saids because I hadn't used a particular skill lately I probably lost it. Well when I was trying to do my class he kept saying look for work and do your class later. I told him I looked for work 4 hours now I can do my class and he would always make excuses to keep me from doing it. Now he is saying I probably lost my skills. Why is he trying to sabotage my success?

If the Fed buys 100 million of treasury bonds, how much can bank loans at 5% rr?

In this Fed purchase of $100 Million bonds, Carpenter National Bank (CNB) was one of the banks that sold bonds. In fact CNB sold $1M of bonds. If the required reserve ratio is 5% (rr = 0.05), banks hold no excess reserves, and the non-bank public holds no additional currency how much can CNB loan out? Show all work and explain please.

Why do we owe the federal reserve interest?

they dont produce anything they only make the money up from thing air why should america pay them interest for this?

How can I get over dads death?

My fiance dad committed suicide when she was 12 yrs old. Since then she has never let that go and she is starting to self-destruct. She gets plastered and get abusive with me, cuts herself (at times), hits/throws herself around. How can I help her with this problem? I have tried to convince her to try a psychologist but she refuses. She uses the alcohol as a crutch and I need to fix this before she gets any worst.

What does China have in common with the Libyan confederacy?

What with that and David Cameron not volunteering himself into a police station for his frauds and sabotage of our country, I detect planning.

Thursday, July 21, 2011

If a family member is constantly a threat to themselves what are someone's options?

I have a friend who lives with a family member who is constantly self destructive. She can't be there 24/7 and when she is gone he takes the oppurtunity to self destruct. He attempts suicide, has some other psychiatric conditions, doesn't take meds consistently, or see therapist, nothing seems to help. What help can she get for him? Can he be institutionalized for a long period of time?

Pokemon Fire Red Help?

I would replace it with Graveler, unless you plan on using him to carry all of your HM skills. Also, although I don't remember if it can learn this or not, you can replace scratch for Mega Punch to Charmeleon.

I think my friend is out to get me?

This girl who I've been friends with since sophomore year has been trying to compare herself to me, always tell me how I'm prettier than her, and then tries to copy off of me. I think she's jealous, which is annoying because I have a feeling one day she'll try to sabotage me. Whenever someone makes fun of her, she'll try to say that they're doing the same to me and that they called me ugly to make herself feel better. One day, I wore these country-styled boots I got from a teacher's closet because the teacher gave it to me since they didn't fit. Well, when I wore them to school this girl who wanted the shoes, but didn't fit her said she was glad she didn't get those because they didn't match. Then my friend said the same thing in a passive aggressive way. She's like, "They don't match. I'm sorry, but they don't." Then if I get a hat or something, she'll go out and buy something similar. She's like that Rachel ***** from that Something Borrowed movie. People make fun of her because she's inconsiderate and a little weird, but when I tried to tell her, she said she had more friends than me, which is so not true. She knows I am trying to change my social ways and how to interact with people, but she tries to set me back by trying to make me look like the "weird" shy one just because I don't like to go up to strangers in public and annoy the hell out of them like she does. She'll make it seem like I have social problems, when she does. She's also narcissistic. She cares way too much about makeup to the point where she thinks it's important to wear it at a drive-in. It's annoying, and she's trying to get me to wear it when I'm not into make up. She likes to distract the class by talking about dumb stuff because she "hates" school, so she's trying to distract learning from everyone else. I'm thinking about getting rid of her, because she seems like a bad friend and a cling-on.

Why do so many politicians "self destruct"?

Just like celebrities they end up surrounding themselves with "yes" people. The politicians (or celebrities) begin to think they can do anything and it is ok....after all nobody can say "no" to them. I think a lot of these people believe what they are doing is perfectly ok...right up to the point they get arrested or the media gets hold of the story.

I want to join the army, but I also want to have a normal life?

I'm currently a senior in high school. I have worked very hard and I want to go to a great college and get a doctorate in pharmacy. But I still want to be a part of something more. If I were to join the army reserve, could I still have a normal college life and a normal civilian career after college? I understand that I could be deployed if I'm needed and I'm willing to take that chance, but for the most part will I have a normal life?

Why did the Special Forces helicopter malfunction and self destruct if they are so elite?

You would think a team of this calibre wouldn't make mistakes why did they blow up a helicopter which probably cost american tax payers millions of dollars?

Guys, would you act like this with a girl you saw as only a friend? Or would it mean you're interested in her?

I met this guy friend a few months ago. We've only really met 4 or 5 times but get on great. Anyhow, he's kind of reserved but we still have lovely conversations. We met for a coffee a few days ago I was telling him about a friend's wedding I had been at and next thing he said 'now we'll have to get married. Aren't you going to marry?' I smiled 'I'm on my own at the moment, but I don't always want to be alone'. Then I was telling him that I'm having problems in the house I'm in at the moment and he said 'you're welcome to come over and stay a bit in my place'. I said 'where will I sleep?' He said 'on the sofa'. (I've been to his place before and he was very gentlemanly and respectful. Yesterday he called and said that next weekend I'm invited to his place. I told him I enjoyed our get together and I could hear a bit of embarassment in his voice. He's not the type to openly compliment but he is very kind to me. I also mentioned I'm taking salsa clases and he said he wants to come with me one time. We're both 30+, single and no children.

Survey: Have you ever had to stand by idly and watch someone close to you self-destruct?

Yes, and it hurts me so badly too. I really wish I can help them, but I just don't know how and sometimes I don't want to make things worse than they already are. My heart really breaks as someone self-destructs and embroils himself in so much pain.

How do I Get My Mom to Stop Trying to Control My Life?

You sound very bright and mature for nineteen. It is good that you are goal oriented and a shame your mom doesn't support you but, I suspect it's more a fear of losing you than anything else. Is she a single mom? An empty nest is hard to deal with and if you and your sister have been the center of her life, you can see why she's trying to dissuade you from attending college or leaving home. Just follow through with your plans and she'll eventually adjust out of necessity. Good luck.

Are major corporations sabotaging the recovery?

You realize that nearly every American family owns corporations, right? Through mutual funds, retirement accounts, pensions, and stock holders. While those greedy corporate ceo's and mangers own under 2% of corporations. So stop trying to kill the middle class with attacking corporations.

Why is the Federal Reserve and the IMF allowed to buy up government bonds, which causes severe inflation ?

The Federal Reserve and IMF's programs of buying government bonds helps Wall Street Banker types, but it erodes every other American's (or Greek's) buying power via inflation. Why are they allowed to operate a ponzy scheme like this w/o public out cry ?

Should the USA outlaw guns now or be damned to self destruct?

i can see it from both sides of the argument. i think we are damned if we do and damned if we dont. its our constitutional right to own a gun but there are more people that id prefer to see without a gun then those that id prefer to see with a gun. i think that we need to sit down and rewrite the constitution. let it be brought up to date. it needs to fit the world we live in today not the world as it used to be.

(Disneyland Resort) Ordered World of Color picnic meals, best time to pick up?

So I just ordered 4 picnic meals for a 9PM showing of World of Color, and I'm aware that my meals and reserved viewing tickets are available to pickup between 11:30am to 8PM. Is it better to pick them up early in the day so my family and I would have a better chance of getting in the blue viewing area?

Is it challenging to get a degree in biology?

I mean more difficult than any other degree? Im mostly interested in working with wild animals but i wouldn't mind working in a zoo or with a veterinarian. I have always been interested in animals and would love a job working with them, most notably in a wildlife park/reserve like yellow stone or in Africa or something.

Why is it so hard for me to keep friends? help plz :)?

All my life I have been reserved or shy. I'm 18 now and im in college. I have 2 bestfriends that understand my personality and are nice. I hate talking and sometimes only talk to them once every two weeks. My bestfriends don't care, they still been my friends since we were in 1st grade but, its harder to keep friends now im going 2 college. How do I keep a friend in college or what's the best way to make friends? thanks :)

Monetary base question?

$50 billion reserves, $550 billion in deposits and $180 billion in currency held by the public. What is the best estimate of the monetary base?

Why am i jumping on my self destruct button:?

Through out my life bad stuff has always happened to me. I have been through a lot from sexual abuse to being put into care any thing bad and i have probably been through it. Now i am in a stable happy relationship and i just cant seem to be happy. I feel as though my mind is going to explode at times with thoughts i have not had in a long time and have even begin to feel as though i am getting more and more anxious. I have just begun to take herbal tablets for the anxiety and hopefully this will help and i do not want any more counselling as i have had this i just want to know if i will ever feel true happiness

Can you tell me this movie?

ok... it's about a doll clone or something. This machine doll clone thing is chasing a guy through this abandoned building to the top. They get on the roof and I think it's raining and the thing finally catches the guy, and he's gonna kill him but the guy says something that somehow activates a self destruct mechanism.

How do you sabotage a blog?

Wow, you are such a rebel. Sabotaging blogs. What next? World domination? Why not just participate. That is, unless you have nothing interesting to say. Which I'd believe.

Wednesday, July 20, 2011

Does a person loose their job if he or she decides to join the military reserves?

i have a good job and do not want to loose it, however i want to join the reserves. My question is, if i decide to join can i still come back to my employer legally?

Do you believe graduation from high school is important?

Yes high school graduation is important...it's a milestone that you only get to experience once in your life.

Why do I chicken out?

..when I like a guy and he likes me I basicly sabotage the whole situation, I start getting scared on what may happen and chicken out. But when im not close to a guy I like I start wishing that I did have a relationship. Its weird ( also if we, me and this guy I like, get together, he'll be my very first boyfriend.)

Now JUST SAY that YOU were Bin Laden. Wouldn't you have made a little welcoming committee for the Navy Seals?

He became complacent. He was careful for 10 years and his people got sloppy. It can Happen to the best of Criminals. Also if your in a compound like that on who would Have thought the seals could go in under radar. i am almost sure the Pakistan Government was protecting this man.

Should I email my ex for closure?

Okay, so I'm having a really hard time getting over my ex and have a few things I feel like I want to say to her. Basically, I was dating this amazing girl for a while back in December and we had been good friends for years and ended up harboring secret crushes for one another. Then when she came and visited me then in December we kissed and revealed our crushes to one another and dated for a couple of weeks. She broke up with me after visiting me at home and getting my family to like her and vice-versa. She claimed that since she was moving to Florida to finish her senior year of college that she couldn't handle the lost distance. She also said that she needed to be on her own for a while and that she wasn't ready for a relationship, saying that she had some demons to fight on her own (she had battled an eating disorder and was still recovering emotionally and psychologically from that as well as fighting off her feelings of neurosis and self-sabotaging her own happiness). I was confused and heart broken because she was the one who initiated everything and kissed me first and told me how much she really liked me and needed me. Then I find out today she's moved to Florida and she is in a long distance relationship with some guy from her home town. I'm really hurt by this and haven't really talked to her since, our friendship now is just awkward as hell, I miss her more and more everyday, and I am torn on what to do. Part of me wants to try and win her back somehow, but the other part wants to make a clean break (delete her from my phone, delete her pictures, and take her off facebook) and I kind of want to write her a message or email explaining everything from my point of view and end it that way after she's heard how I feel, nothing negative I promise. What should I do?

Monetary base question?

$50 billion reserves, $550 billion in deposits and $180 billion in currency held by the public. What is the best estimate of the monetary base?

Trouble with a boy and a very close friend.?

So there's this guy, Erik and my best friend Chloe. They were dating but due to trust issues and him cheating on her Chloe and Erki broke up. The day after Erik and her broke up, Erik came over. We walked around, talked, he met my family and such. Then he kissed me, twice. I know it sounds bad, but I have liked him for four months now. We tried dating before but it didn't work out well because I was an idiot. Well now I like him, I like him a lot. Our school had a dance and he was saying how excited he was to see me in my dress and everything before. At the dance we hung out. We made plans to hang out after and such. Then a slow song came on, the only slow song in the entire dance and we slow danced. I was seriously having the best night. Though, then Chloe starts crying. One of Erik's friends sees her and talks to her. Bsically people made Erik feel bad. So he walks up to me and says "I think everyone would be happir if I was with Chloe and not you, except for you" I was honestly crushed. I ran crying. Later I asked if he was sure and he said yes. I walked out of the dance crying and such, everyone saw it sucked. About 5 minutes into the ride, he texts me. He says stuff like sorry, I never meant this for you, I wanted to be different..I don't want to talk to you I need to, I have feelings for you, and he kept apologizing. Honestly I feel I love him so I couldn't stay mad, we talked even though as of that night they were back together.Well then recently we had a school trip, seeing them together makes me cry. Chloe knows about the kiss and whenever I go near Erik she glares at me. It's been over a week since I've actually even hugged him, and it sucks. We were all hanging out yesterday, Chloe, Erik, me, and Jamie. Jamie is the other one of our friends. Chloe made Erik feel so unneeded. She flirted with other guys at the pool, ran with them, got chased by them. Erik is though the type of person to let it go. He's a strong person. He's gotten into fights, he can pick me up, he tells me he'll always keep me safe. He's like a super man except he can be destructed. But anyways I was talking to her and she looked at me and said see those two guys over there? I still like them. And she's told me she likes other guys. I told her, she has everything I want and I wish I was with him. She kinda just blew me off like I said nothing. She I guess doesn't understand. But she left then Jamie and I hung out with him. I love being alone with him. I wouldn't be doing this if I didn't know it felt right becauseit does. When I look at him I see no flaws. He keeps me on my toes. He's incredibly hot and attractive. When I see him, talk to him I feel commplete. There's nothing anyone could do to change this. I want to be with him. I want him to realize he could be so much happier. I wish she would realize it. I dunno. Is there anything I could say to them? Summer is in 3 more days of school and I don't want the relationship to drag on because then I will lose himm. I don't want that. I just want to tell him that she likes other guys, and all of that but Jamie said it isn't my place, and it's not. But if there anything I could say to Chloe? They're not right for each other even if they agree they love each other. They're 14. I think they're saying it, just to say it.

Giant Kozaky Deck help?

There are some really bad cards in this deck. Two-pronged attack, Megamorph, Mystic Box, Dark Room of Nightmare, Wall of Illusion, Self Destruct Button, and Giant Germ are really bad.

How do I get rid of a menace living on my property? Sheriff's won't do anything to get rid of him.?

I have a nightmare living on my property. He's dangerous, loud, destructive and steals everything he can get his hands on. I live in a house in the mountains owned by my mother. She lives nearby. In January she allowed this individual to move his travel trailer to a location behind my house. He was supposed to pay the electric bill every month in exchange for allowing him to live there. My bill was around $200 when he moved in. 2 months later it was $1750. He moved in Jan. 21st and payed $100. The next time I got anything from him was Mid May. He gave me $200 and said he wanted $300 credit because he said my boyfriend owed him $100 because in Jan, while my boyfriend was helping him cut wood, the back window of his truck was accidentally broken by my boyfriend. He has not paid any of the electric bill as per the agreement and he refuses to move. He threatens my boyfriend's life daily, breaks into my house, yells, screams and terrorizes my household, sabotages the pump so we don't have water, severely damaged the pump house (tore the walls out and left it with huge holes you can walk through,steals whatever he can, has pinched my butt and made unwelcome sexual comments to me, tries to hurt my dog, and is generally a nightmare to deal with. He has 10 or so vehicles and lots of tools/junk strewn from one end of the property to the other. All the cars have their hoods/trunks/doors open and most have some or all of the interiors and motors scattered nearby. He refuses to stay out of my immediate living space or move his vehicles and mess to his area. The sheriff has been called twice and they wouldn't do a thing to help. The second time was because He tried to break into the home while we were inside(asleep at 1:15 AM). He was screaming and banging on the doors and walls threatening to kill my boyfriend. By the time the sheriff's arrived he was locked in his trailer, hiding. They didn't talk to him because they said they couldn't just break in as the door was locked. They acted like it was us who are the problem and even went so far as to suggest that WE move!!! We have asked him to pay rent, to be nice, to move out and he absolutely refuses. He was served with a 30 day notice of eviction. I know he will not move. What do I do? How do I get rid of this jerk? We can't afford an attorney. We can't afford to pay the bills, that's why my mom let him move onto the property to begin with! He wanted to help us out! I thought maybe I could get rid of him if I let the power get shut off but the sheriff's told me that if I do that my children will be removed from my home and put in foster care. Can anyone give me any advice about how to fix this situation? I am scared to death of him and afraid he will destroy everything on the property. Thank you for taking the time to read this.

Might I have any problem if name of passport do not match the e-tickets?

That's okay as long as the spellings are all correct, sometimes air tickets do show names put together as one. If you have flown with the same airline before, you might not need to give out your passport information again. In case the airline needs your passport number, they will email you a few days before departure.

I had an app on my phone that was a movie and tv app it had movies on it that were i the theaters still,it was?

AN App that was a little tv set with ears on it or antennas and there was a bunch of listings like putlocker and other sites to down LOAD MOVIES AND TV SHOWS FROM. YOU WOULD CLICK ON THE MOVIE YOU WANTED TO WATCH AND THEN IT WOULD GO TO A PAGE WHERE YOU COULD DOWN LOAD THE MOVIE OR TV SHOW.MY PHONE BLEW UP AND I LOST ALL MY DOWN LOADS ,DO NOT EVER GET HTC EVO I AM ON MY SIXTH ONE IN FIVE MONTHS THEY JUST SELF DESTRUCT EVERY ONE I HAVE HAD BUT I CAN'T REMEMBER HOW OR WHERE I GOT THAT APP. HELP ME PLEASE.

Guys? Am I acting too eager/ available for this guy?

We've met 3 times and I told him I'd like to be friends to get to know each other and see. Anyhow, the last time we went out was a week ago for a coffee. It went really well. He had done most of the calling and iniciating of contact, except after the second date, I texted him to thank him. Anyhow, this time he told me to call him and we'd get together to do something soon. So 2 days after that coffee I called and left a voicemail. When I didn't hear back, 2 days later I messaged him and asked if he got the message. He replied immediately that he didn't and asked if something had happened. So he called me that night and I invited him to a concert on Sunday. He told me he couldn't go this weekend due to sports fixtures (he's on a team). Then he said that this weekend we would do something. Am I too eager and available? He's reserved and I don't want to frighten him off but still want to show him I'm attracted to him.

Why does god throw all these challenges on my family?

I'm 18 and I live in Brooklyn in a harsh neighborhood. First I'll begin with my beliefs. When I was younger, I didn't believe in god even though I was baptized and christian born. Lately I've been feeling more spiritual with myself and even though I didn't believe in god, I still read about Christianities history and laws (due to my huge interest in history). Now, I don't fully believe in god (although I do believe in a single 'energy' up there) but I still follow many of his laws and try to keep my sins to a minimum (even small things such as not littering). I was always a kind kid always wanting to help people and just have friends and find love. However, because of the harshness of my area I was led to drug abuse and scams (although they weren't as extreme level as most of my surrounding people). I;ve been praying for my safety and my moms safety. In return, I had my car vandalized for $10,000 of damages (because of one of my friends actions), last week again all my tires were slashed (again because of something other people did) and I can't do much about it, even though I never meant the people that did this to me any harm or scams. On top of that, a year before, my dad had an affair with my mom and left us, took almost everything we had from us, and left us in bankruptcy. Its just me and my mom living in a rented apartment with low on money and my mom is trying extremely hard to find a job. She's been having health problems because of the seperation and her emotions are getting worse rapidly because she's losing hope of finding a job and our cash reserves are running very low and I pray for the best, mostly for my mom even before myself. In my junior high school and high school years, I never had friends and instead everybody would always make fun of me because I couldn't properly adapt, instead of partying I would stay home and read about politics, military, history, and music because those were my interests but everybody around me thought otherwise. I never had a girlfriend because I never was the type of guy to have sex with a girl and leave them or play around with their emotions because love around here is just a game, and all the girls that I liked have rejected me always. As for my drug abuse, I do them significantly less as before and been trying to just get away from everyone I know for a while now, because theres no trust here at all between people that I've even known for years, which led to my car being vandalized more then twice and other instances which cause a high alert for me and my mom, which naturally makes my street experience rise. Me and my mom go to church every now and then and I still like to talk with god and ask him for help, but everything just seems to get worse, that I only have enemies around and no real friends, not me nor my mom. I don't think I've ever sinned so much to deserve all this and I ask for forgiveness for anything bad that I've done. I heard that karma usually hits hard for something my family has done before, but this is too much, will god ever help us? I just have no clue where else to turn too.

Were protesters at Tienanmen Square violent?

I know the majority were peaceful people. I am just wondering if any were violent in their actions. even if not directly. things like starting fires or destructing property. Please site your answer, I've been unable to find information on the specific nature of the protesters.

Family action film help?

sorry this isnt really an answer but your movie seems a bit too obviuos in a wat if u know what i mean. like if i was to watch it i know i would know what was going to happen. i would recommend going somwere in the tracks of the movie the incredible

Questions about how to get my parents living on post with us.?

My mom came and lived with us for quite a while at three different posts. Stewart, Riley and now Huachuca. They don't have to be dependent upon you, but there needs to be a reason for them living with you if they aren't. Health issues on their part or yours, assistance during deployments, things of that sort. I have some health issues and have had multiple surgeries so they okay'd her living with us for that reason. They didn't ask for documentation and they even put us on the list for a house with one more bedroom then we currently are living in. She received an ID card and a sticker for her car. I would just talk to housing and work it out. Usually they are pretty understanding.

Hot to make a pool stink?

My rental's neighbors stole the water from my house while I was in between renters, to fill their pool. I want to sabotage it so they have to drain it and use their own water! What can I throw in there that will not damage anything, but will leave an odor strong enough to have to drain?

Why don't we hear any candidates talking about monetary reform?

Why do the issues of having a privately owned currency in the Federal Reserve and the practice of fractional reserve banking, not come up, even in times of severe recession?

I'm depressed because I don't have the desire to do anything productive. Help?

I wish I had the desire to write stories or practice an instrument. Am I just being whiny and self-sabotaging?

I envy my best friend, A LOT; and it's killing me because I feel so wrong doing so. Help?

My Best Friend Jody was in a situation just like that. He felt like he had no friends and no one liked him, he was jealous of his friends. this is when i started talking to him, i wanted him to be happy. i talked to him 24/7 and finally he realized he was wrong, there was people right next to him who cared and loved him. he thought he was a nerd, well he is kinda different sometimes--or always.. that's what makes him my best friend!. Everyone is Amazing in their own way! not a single person at my school is like another, we all have our own style and our own talents! every little detail that makes you different from your friend makes you even more amazing! Embrace how your different! Get out there make yourself Available! im sure that if you be your self everyday will be your best!, you don't want to look back on your past and get upset about how you wasted all your time trying to "Be" your friend. oh and why don't you tell your friend how you feel? a real friend wouldn't do something like that if they knew it would make you upset. btw Guys like girls who are tall, that's an advantage you've got over your friend!

What would you do in my shoes? Im really broken...?

If I understood right, both of you are married to different people but having feelings for each other. Right? If so, then it was a mistake by you and him to come close. Man and woman are like oil and fire. This can happen with any man or woman out there if we keep ourselves so easily "available" to others despite having the love of our life around us. FIRST thing you should do is break-off with him in every aspect. If you can't find another job (which would be the BEST strategy in your case), then sit with him face-to-face and tell him the same that you wrote here as a question on Yahoo Answers. Show him your question and my answer. If both of you care and love each other enough, you guys will stop messing around. However, if you truly feel it is something "out of control" for both of you, then surely both of you are already in wrong relationships with other people. Both of you MUST immediately separate from your current life-partners and start a life together. But for God's sake, don't let 4 people suffer because of a mere infatuation. Thanks.

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

Do you think any major progress (politcally, economically, socially) will be made in the United States soon?

I was talking politics w/ the gf yesterday and my point/view is this...In the United States we as citizens may never stand together and speak out or demand the changes that we feel are neccessary for our nation to prosper. The reason this is true is because there are SO many different groups in America. The Rich/Wealthy have the most 'Power', but the Rich dont want change b/c the current status quo keeps them Rich. The Middle Class is divided in the sense that some want action/change; but most feel complacent, like 'Hey, as long as i get my paycheck, and its enough to take care of my family, I'm not going to rock the boat'...The 'working poor' have Very Limited 'Power', but can mass protest...Everyone is just DIVIDED on ALOT of issues. Republicans/Demorcats, gay marriage, abortion, gun control, teen pregnancy, war on drugs, War overseas, border control, immigration, animal rights, oil company revenues, outsourcing, welfare, racial issues, religious issues, import vs export, domestic drilling...etc. There are just so MANY issues that can angrily divide us. I am a democrat, however I stand different on certain 'Democratic' views. So with so many voters, citizens so divided on so many issues, will we ever be able to stand United for a positive change in our country?? I mean gas prices have even gone down temporarily, but people are even complaining now about using some of the reserves...it's like, will people EVER agree?? Why or Why not?

Ashley Hebert The Bachelorette?

I'm convinced- Ashley Hebert is a complete idiot. She's desperate for the worst contestant in the house Bentley and then she invites the guys to insult her in front of a sold out audience? This girl needs some therapy. She's one of the biggest self-sabotaging girls I've seen. I thought she was cute, spunky and fun to watch but now I just think she's dumb and desperate. Why do you think she's doing this to herself?

Do you think I'll hear from this guy? He said we'd meet this weekend?

We met months ago and I told him I wanted to be friends at first to get to know each other. We went out 3 times and then his mother became ill and we fell out of contact as he was spending all his time with her plus he has a very busy job. Then a couple of weeks ago we got in contact again and he invited me for a coffee last week. We got on great. I was telling him about a friend's wedding I had been at and he said 'now we'll have to get married. Aren't you going to marry?' I smiled 'I'm on my own at the moment'. Then I was telling him that I'm having problems in the house I'm in at the moment and he said 'you're welcome to come over and stay a bit in my place'. I said 'where will I sleep?' He said 'on the sofa'. (I've been to his place before and he was very gentlemanly and respectful. Last Friday we spoke and he said that this weekend I'm invited to his place. I told him I enjoyed our get together and I could hear a bit of embarassment in his voice. He's quite reserved. Then I said 'ok, you call me as you have a much busier schedule than I do at the moment/ He's not the type to openly compliment but he is very kind to me. I also mentioned I'm taking salsa clases and he said he wants to come with me one time. We're both 30+, single and no children. Do you think I'll hear from him? When, seeing as he said we'd meet this weekend?

How do I get the intelligence of my brain & harness the power to alter my appearance to get the inferior women?

First put your head in a gas oven and turn it on. The gas will help suppress your awesome mental (ego) capacity to allow you to control the mind of the walmart girl you like instead of melting her brain. Allow 15 minutes per cubic gram of brain matter of oven gas inhalation.

Dull pain when peeing, but no frequency. NOT UTI.?

i did not read 100% of this truthfully, but this is what i would suggest. i have had the same thing and i went to the doctor. they said it was not a uti but put me on antibiotics anyway beacause i have adrenal insufficiency so he donst take chances with me. it went away. then i had it again and all i did was drank a bunch of cranberry juice and havnt had one since! :) i didnt think it was a uti beacuse it didnt feel the same at all. after i did some reasurch i found out that it was a very minor type of infection that usually dosnt show up. idky. but just drink some cranbery juice and if that dosnt help then go to the doctor! :)

When changing services from the Army reserve to the Navy reserve, would I keep my time in grade or start over?

Whether you even get to keep your grade is a bigger question, but I would say you would get a new date of rank in your new service. A recruiter could tell you for certain.

Dating a party girl will it work?

I'm kind of the silent reserved type, she likes to party, get drunk, clubbing, etc. Does that mean she's automatically a slut?

I am wondering if there is a way to get my felony residential burglaries from 11 years ago dismissed?

I live in California. I have contacted my local Public Defenders office and they say I do not qualify. There MUST be some way I can get these off my record so I can seek more gainful employment and restore my broken marriage. My wife is insistent that the crimes are off my record though she knew about them before we were married; I was given false information years ago by my public defender that the process would not be hard to get them expunged, in which I passed that information on to her when we were still dating. Though the best case scenario would be that the love my wife had for would be so great that something like this wouldn't matter, unfortunately thats not the case right now and I KNOW God brought us together and I am tryng to make sense out of all this and I have to believe that there is some way to make these felony's disappear. Though I pray that God softens her heart and something like this won't matter, I still have to try whatever I can and exhaust all my resources. I am off probation, I only served county jail time, I have paid all my restitution and I have not not been convicted of anything since. These crimes were strikeable offenses and I did receive strikes (you cant strike out on 1 case). I have a 17 year suspended sentence. There has to be something I can do, no matter how bad my chances may seem, to get these off my record. I was looking at 20-35 years in prison and by the grace of God alone, I only served county time. There has to be something that california law, some exemption, some loophole or special circumstance? Joining the Army Reserve perhaps? Really I am open to all suggestions. From what I understand, the 2 most common dismissals, though I'm not sure of the penal codes, the public defends office says I do not qualify for. Thanks in advance.

I'm in love with my best friend. Problem is, my other friend likes him. Help?

Ok so I thought he was cute when I first met him. He sat In front of me in Spanish class. Then we started talking when we found a mutual friend. And our friendship went uphill from there. Then I started to like him . More and more. Then I fell in love with him, the more time I spent with him. Ive had many boyfriends before, but I've never felt this way about any guy. He helped me through my darkest moment. And a few months ago, we started talking ( me and her ), she was kinda there for me. And since then we talk and she told me she was starting to like him. ( the moment she started talking to me, she started talking to him too ) so he got a girlfriend in feb. I still love him thoug, and give him advice when he needs it. Iv helped his relationships through so many rough patches. As long as he's happy.but now she keeps talking to me about how much she likes him. And now today she told me she loves him too. Ugh. I don't EVER want to sabotage his relationship, so I wouldn't intentionally give him bad advice, when he counts on me to get him through it. Well I at least know he loves me as a friend. That warms my heart lol. Today we were kidding around and he asked me to give him half of my bagel and I was like your lucky I love u and he said aww I love u too :) . But anyway what do I do? If he were to become single? Should I let her have it? Cuz today I tested out the situation with her, but I used another friends name, and she said she would be mad, and maybe fight her because she knows how much she likes him && try to deal with the situation. Sooo if he were to ever kiss me, or ask me out? What should ibdo?

Feeling so very guilty about moving on. I don't know what to do. Please.?

I'm sorry you're suffering, but try as hard as you can to move on. You may want to make a commitment to yourself that you will ask for and expect more from your next relationship. A 10-year "engagement" is not a committed relationship. He's moved on, so now it's your turn. Wishing you the very best of luck.

Giant question!!! 10 pts to best answer!?

I'm 14, and I'm pretty sure I have Klinefelter's syndrome... (Xxy males.) The problem is, I have ALWAYS wanted to have a son or daughter... But if I did, since Klinefelter's gets passed on, it's basically like intentionally sabotaging a life for my own selfish reasons... My son will without a doubt have klinefelter's, and I really wouldn't want that... What should I do?!?!

Would we have more control over oil prices if we got rid of OPEC oil?

And how much demand would we have to destruct so we don`t have to use OPEC oil? And don`t start talking about drilling for our kid`s kid`s oil.

How to sabotage someone computer without damaging it. (prank)?

I have a brother who is totally unfair about sharing his computer with me even though i made that bloody computer for him. Anyway, does anyone have any idea on how to sabotage the computer without damaging it.

Herman Cain was a Federal Reserve Chairman, would you really vote for him?

He not only was a Fed chairman and didn't think we should audit the FED. So he didn't think taxpayers should know about us bailing out foreign banks, giving the wives of wall street CEOs millions for no apparent reason, or giving a Libyan controlled bank in Bahrain $53 Billion just before we go to war with them. Would conservatives really vote for this guy?

Why do we have to pay back the debt the country owes to the Federal Reserve?

With QE they did not even print money. They just created virtual cash. I'll send them some Yahoo cookies. They are worth more.

How are deep cycle batteries rated?

Basically I am wanting to build a battery bank, problems is that I am not familiar with some of the terms. From what I have been able to find on my own is that most batteries are rated by either cold cranking amps or reserve capacity. I am trying to find a battery that will offer the most charge for the least amount of money. Can anyone help?

Why is the GOP trying to sabotage this country economic recovery ?

What are they trying to sabotage, the 9.1% and rising unemployment, or the 1.8% GDP already under producing. .

What would be the correct time to let my 8 month old labrador roam freely inside my house?

i have an 8 month old male labrador. he is very naughty. we generally keep him tied up coz if we alllow him inside our house he destructs just everything. but i want him to roam free inside our house. he is very active and energitic. this makes me afraid to bring him inside.and some times he even poops where we dont want to. i am also having trouble in potty training him. what to do....?

Will this actually happen?

My worry is that if we keep pumping all the oil the Earth will freeze up on its axle and stop turning.

Copperheads were....?

Copperheads were Northern Democrats who opposed the Civil War and wanted to make a peace settlement with the Confederates. So the nearest you have in your options for answers is C).

Should the USA outlaw guns now or be damned to self destruct?

I think that the world should need guns. We need protection if we dont use guns we use nukes adn atomic bombs and we start the nuclear holocaust.

Poll how do i stop my mom from thinking im suicidal?

i took 40 benadryl pills and she now thinks that i was trying to self destruct . i have told her that i wasnt , and she wont believe me, she then says "you subconciously were". she thinks im crazy for doing this but im NOT!!!! i just did it to see what it would feel like, i was bored and just did it at night time and thought it would wear off in the morning and nobody would notice, unfortunately, i was still intoxicated in the morning and afternoon the next day, she wanted to take me to the hospital. why does she think im suicidal

How can I get a refund....?

I reserved a ticket though Irctc, but didnt travel on that day due to some other program. I asked my frnd to cancel the ticket, but she unknowingly cancelled only one berth in that reserved ticked. Now can I get a refund on that ticket, if Yes how can proceed to get refund on the other berths?? Can anyone help me on this???

Need Help with Chemistry Homework?

Maybe if you could show us what you're having problems with, specifically. I doubt anyone's going to jump at the chance to do your homework for you.

Motel reservation with parents' credit card?

In a little more than a month my boyfriend and I are taking a vacation to the beach, he is 20 and I'm 18. We both only have debit cards and don't want to use them to reserve our room online. Could it be possible to use my parent's credit card to just pay for the motel room in one go on the computer? The main issue I'm worried about is getting to the crappy motel we're staying at and them have a conflict with us using a card that isn't ours.

What is a toy that my dog won't destroy?

We have this ball and I don't remember what it was called but it is like a hard rubber in a bee hive shaped pattern (the rubber was the outside of the comb and empty in the middle). I have 4 dogs a lab, 2 Australian Shepard\blue healers, and a Pomeranian and I have had it for years and it has yet to be destroyed!

Monday, July 18, 2011

Is this not normal? I don't get attached to people.?

It occurred to me today that people have gone in and out of my life, and I don't feel the least bit of attachment towards any of them. My best friends have moved on, or away. I enjoyed talking to them and hanging out with them at the time, but there is a sense of relief for me when they leave. It's tiring to try and be interesting and uphold conversation. I'm a quiet, and reserved person, content to stay by myself and just float through life without worrying about tending to a relationship. Recently, a friendship that had grown over 3 years was wrecked because I just decided she wasn't worth the trouble she was causing. She didn't like my sister, she tried to put me down and make me feel inferior. A real queen bee. I don't miss her at all. I feel like it's simpler. Is it normal to just be able to end relationships with friends and feel nothing? Even my family. I'm about to leave for college, and I don't feel anything about it but relief. It just doesn't feel right. I don't feel close to anyone I've ever met. I've never had a boyfriend. Never felt the need. I'm not soulless, though. I want to meet the one and have a happy, long life with him. I just don't know how I'll be able to. I don't know what it's like to love somebody.

Trouble with a boy and very close friend.?

So there's this guy, Erik and my best friend Chloe. They were dating but due to trust issues and him cheating on her Chloe and Erki broke up. The day after Erik and her broke up, Erik came over. We walked around, talked, he met my family and such. Then he kissed me, twice. I know it sounds bad, but I have liked him for four months now. We tried dating before but it didn't work out well because I was an idiot. Well now I like him, I like him a lot. Our school had a dance and he was saying how excited he was to see me in my dress and everything before. At the dance we hung out. We made plans to hang out after and such. Then a slow song came on, the only slow song in the entire dance and we slow danced. I was seriously having the best night. Though, then Chloe starts crying. One of Erik's friends sees her and talks to her. Bsically people made Erik feel bad. So he walks up to me and says "I think everyone would be happir if I was with Chloe and not you, except for you" I was honestly crushed. I ran crying. Later I asked if he was sure and he said yes. I walked out of the dance crying and such, everyone saw it sucked. About 5 minutes into the ride, he texts me. He says stuff like sorry, I never meant this for you, I wanted to be different..I don't want to talk to you I need to, I have feelings for you, and he kept apologizing. Honestly I feel I love him so I couldn't stay mad, we talked even though as of that night they were back together.Well then recently we had a school trip, seeing them together makes me cry. Chloe knows about the kiss and whenever I go near Erik she glares at me. It's been over a week since I've actually even hugged him, and it sucks. We were all hanging out yesterday, Chloe, Erik, me, and Jamie. Jamie is the other one of our friends. Chloe made Erik feel so unneeded. She flirted with other guys at the pool, ran with them, got chased by them. Erik is though the type of person to let it go. He's a strong person. He's gotten into fights, he can pick me up, he tells me he'll always keep me safe. He's like a super man except he can be destructed. But anyways I was talking to her and she looked at me and said see those two guys over there? I still like them. And she's told me she likes other guys. I told her, she has everything I want and I wish I was with him. She kinda just blew me off like I said nothing. She I guess doesn't understand. But she left then Jamie and I hung out with him. I love being alone with him. I wouldn't be doing this if I didn't know it felt right becauseit does. When I look at him I see no flaws. He keeps me on my toes. He's incredibly hot and attractive. When I see him, talk to him I feel commplete. There's nothing anyone could do to change this. I want to be with him. I want him to realize he could be so much happier. I wish she would realize it. I dunno. Is there anything I could say to them? Summer is in 3 more days of school and I don't want the relationship to drag on because then I will lose himm. I don't want that. I just want to tell him that she likes other guys, and all of that but Jamie said it isn't my place, and it's not. But if there anything I could say to Chloe? They're not right for each other even if they agree they love each other. They're 14. I think they're saying it, just to say it.

If i trade in a ps3 can i get gamestop credit on a gift card?

recently gamestop changed their policy that they cant say how much a game is worth over the phone so i went and they said that i have to spend all of my money on games and not put anything over 10 dollars on a gift card that i already had or give me a new one. Is this true? they have scammed me multiple times (charging me normal halo reach as legendary, putting 2-4 reserves on my reciept costing 10+20$ that i did not want and they didnt even mention. I even think they sold me a used hacked xbox because the batteries were already in the controller and it said i had 3 trophies from 1970 (if you have a solve for the 1970 problem please tell me)) the only thing they have done good is be lazy and gave me 50$ for little big planet because they selected the combo pack. I am not going to use them again and i would like to know if the thing about the gift card thing is true because i have about estimated 250 credit that i will get for trading in all of my ps3 stuff (was a huge fanboy but i got an xbox and only play that and i will be doing alot of stuff this year and wont have time for 2 systems) also can i trade in move controllers, navi controller, ps3 eye, duelshock controller, bluetooth headset, and rockband controllers?

I want to know if you have to reserve a spot in cedar point for an RV and also the price for a family of 6?

i will be going to cedar point soon and would like to know if you have to get a reservation for the RV parking and the night and also how much is it

What's the word i'm looking for to describe this sentence e.g. simile analogy etc?

If someone said "its like shooting yourself in the foot before you've even began the race" - meaning you don't give yourself a very good head start and self sabotage your chance of winning. What's the term that describes the sentence?

Should I stay or should I go?

dont go just yet have you ever thought of doing premarital counseling just because you have humps in the road does not mean the end of a relationship maybe you guys just need to sit in front of someone and air your feelings out remember 10 years is along time

Is Cameron sacrificing Teachers to pay for HS2?

Correct.Many years ago teachers took a great pay cut and they have never caught up.Everybody thinks that teachers have an easy life.Just try it in a failing inner city school for one term.Best of British!

Becoming a Nurse While in The Army?

So I'm 18 and a half years old, just graduated high school a month, and leaving for Army Basic Training in 2 weeks. I'm going to become a Medic in the Army. My long term goals for my life is to become a Nurse in Army Nurse Corps by the time I'm around 27...So far my plan is to enlist for 4 years, then do reserves for 4 years, and while I'm in the Reserves to become an RN. I hope to become a OB/GYN Nurse. What I want to know, from a Civilian or Military, does this goal seem moderately realistic? How much of my courses can I do online or during active duty? Just a general question, roughly how much does it cost to become a RN? I'm not so much worried about the money because I qualified for a Army College Fund that will more than likely completely pay for my education.

Historical Critical Approach to Fahrenheit 451?

Cute but not what Bradbury was aiming at. He was concerned about Joe McCarthy, McCarthyism, and a rising tide of both ignorance and censorship in America. Bradbury is still alive and alert. Why not track him down through his website (I know he lives in southern California) and ask him directly?

Is liberty reserve account there ? how it will works?

I have Liberty Reserve account because I use it to invest in hyips and to fund my account with forex broker. Liberty Reserve is a private payment system based in Costa Rica. Seems to be the most widely used e-currency now. To buy/sell/exchange, you will need to use an exchanger. I use e-forexgold.com in case you need advice which one to use.

Fighting an Impossible Fight!?

I have a deep suspicion that some powerful "RAT" in some powerful organization is doing a lot of harm to my software business (sabotage) and I was looking for a few school principals to validate or invalidate such suspicion. How do I go about that?

When will the oil reserves be replaced?

I believe they released 60 million barrels. As of May 2011 it had more than 726 million barrels. Part of the supplies are replenished by oil from federal leases in lieu of royalties.

Economics 450 question?

If the ratio of currency to transaction deposits is 1, the ratio of nontransaction deposits to transaction deposits is 6, the ratio of retail money-market funds to transactions deposits is 2, the ratio of required reserves to transactions deposits is 0.07, the ratio of excess reserves to transactions deposits is 0.02, and the ratio of required clearing balances to transactions deposits is 0.03. Then the M1 multiplier equals Fill in the Blank 12 and the M2 multiplier equals Fill in the Blank 13 (two decimal places).

Overweight girlfriend problem?

My girlfriend is 30 y/o, 5'4", and weighs around 135lbs. We both know she is overweight & looks it, and needs to lose about 15-20lbs. She's been trying...goes to the gym 3 times/wk, walks every other day, doesn't eat much most days.... But about once a week, she'll just pig out! Eat junk or over-eat at dinner...sometimes eating as much (or more than) me. I think she's sabotaging her weight loss by these once-a-week binges, but she says she's just hungry from nearly starving herself all week. But I told her if she wants to be skinny, she needs to think like the Hollywood- types. Think of food as bad, or the enemy. I've actually had to take her plate away when it looks like she's about to eat more than her allotted calories for the day! It's like she loses self-control, and I have to do it for her! How is she ever going to be hot if she keeps over-eating like that? What can I do? I want her to be thin, but I especially don't want her to get any fatter than she already is. My brother refers to her as "chunk" behind her back & my friends periodically ask me why I continue to live with her & tell me I can do better. I love her, but I know they're right. How else can I help her (make her?) reach her goal?

Is positive jealousy okay?

Pleaseee don't be jelous hunnie every one is good looking as they are. it's about your inner light not flesh! no tipe of jelousy will hilp you! :[

Is it true the Federal Reserve is privately owned?

I'm in Ireland, not the States and was asking a question about US taxes etc, one answerer said that US Federal tax - income tax - was actually nothing to do with the US government??? And that the Federal Reserve bank was privately owned??? What do they mean? I'm pretty sure they're wrong. Thanks.

My boyfriend is hot and cold about our relationship!?

He's not sure if he wants to continue to be with you. He is going through some things in life and expects you to sit there and go through the motions with him. I wouldn't stick around because you will start losing your identity. He wants to make you only focus on him and not on yourself. When he says things like “what if we can’t be happy”. Than he's trying to tell you he doesn’t think he could be happy. This man has no intentions on changing how he deals with you. Do yourself a favor quit trying to figure him out and move on gently this guy will wear you down if you let him.

How do I get out of my situation?

I am almost 35 and still living with my parents. I recently discovered that my dad is a narcissist, and has been intentionally manipulating my life in the hopes of keeping me completeliy dependant on him. I am college educated and when trying to find my way out into the world, I have discovered how dependant I am on everybody and everything. I cannot seem to get out of this mindset. I continue to push girls away because I am so afraid they will find out that I still live with my parents. During all of this, my father continues to search for excuses to punish me like a child, shutting my phone off, doing favors for me then telling me I owe him.According to him, what I owe him is, "when I tell you to do something, you're gonna do exactly what I tell you to do" He has already sabotaged a career I had going, and is attempting to sabotage the one im working on now. Because I have such high levels of subjugation, I have attracted friends that are similar in nature. I dont have the finances to get out, nor do I know I how to be independant. How do I get out?

What to stock my fridge?

if something like that did happen i would get things that could last long, seeing as electricity would most likely go out and a lot of your food would spoil. And gas would to so you would have to cook over an open fire. There are a lot of online sites, that offer regular, and canned food that can last along time in case of emergency, and make sure to start growing a garden so you can have your own vegetables and fruit, seeing as many stores may shut down or be looted.

Help me with my yu-gi-oh deck?

I'd completely rebuild a deck from scratch. There is no consistent theme at all. You have reptiliiane, Naturia, beasts, and just random monsters overall. If I were you I would focus on a theme you already have some cards for and try to get more to benefit the deck. Naturia's have some pretty good cards, along with Jurrac monsters. Maybe you could try building one of those decks.

Will telling my boyfriend about my eating disorder history scare him off?

Well in all honesty, if the eating disorder bothers him and he runs away, he wasn't a good boyfriend for you anyways. A true boyfriend wouldn't care and would accept you for who you are, as cliche as it sounds. So to answer your question, its possible, it all depends on your boyfriend.

What path should i take to become an Army Infantry Officer?

Hello all i was wondering if i could get some good insight on how to become an Infantry Officer in the Army. I am currently enlisted and in future soldier training, so i will go to basic prepared possibly as a E-2 i have a GED and plan on going to collage while active. Now i hear its hard to go from National Guard or Reserves back to Active, is it the same for Officers? Or should i stay in Active and slowly get my 4 or 6 year then go to ROTC or whatever. Anyone have experience in this? or some good insight?

We're supposed to meet this weekend but he hasn't contacted me yet? Do you think I'll hear from him?

We met months ago and I told him I wanted to be friends at first to get to know each other. We went out 3 times and then his mother became ill and we fell out of contact as he was spending all his time with her plus he has a very busy job. Then a couple of weeks ago we got in contact again and he invited me for a coffee last week. We got on great. I was telling him about a friend's wedding I had been at and he said 'now we'll have to get married. Aren't you going to marry?' I smiled 'I'm on my own at the moment'. Then I was telling him that I'm having problems in the house I'm in at the moment and he said 'you're welcome to come over and stay a bit in my place'. (I've been to his place before and he was very gentlemanly and respectful). Last Friday we spoke and he said that this weekend I'm invited to his place. I told him I enjoyed our get together and I could hear a bit of embarassment in his voice. He's quite reserved. Then I said 'ok, you call me as you have a much busier schedule than I do at the moment/ He's not the type to openly compliment but he is very kind to me. I also mentioned I'm taking salsa clases and he said he wants to come with me one time. We're both 30+, single and no children. Do you think I'll hear from him? When, seeing as he said we'd meet this weekend?

Should Borderline Personality Disordered people tell future mates that they have diagnosis and what it means?

With so much self-sabotage after the honeymoon phase (i.e. infidelity, suicidal gestures, raging, moodiness, someone dual personalities that turn off and on within minutes or hours aand even cutting and hair pulling of one's self). Should you tell a prospective partner that you have this mental illness or should you stay in therapy and just hope that therapy cures it before the next relationship is destroyed? Bear in mind, every relationship has been destroyed through due to having BPD. It is a personal unavoidable history, but is it the future? My therapist is providing a good therapeutic bond, but admittedly knows little to nothing about BPD treatments other than CBT.

Why do borderline personality people tend to self destruct?

because you set that goal as your priority in life without even realising it, everything else becomes distractions, try to take things a little slower and examine healthier possibilities to achieve your goal.

What do you train for in the air force at the MacDill AFB?

My boyfriend is in the air force, and he's there right now. But he won't tell me what job he is in the air foce....So I found out what base he's at and I was just wondering what jobs train at this base? Is it special forces, guard, reserve, etc? Thank you! :)

FIFA 11- get around signing players from higher leagues.?

I'm playing with NY in the MLS, and sold all my reserves. I have 10million dollars and nowhere to put it. Do I just have to offer a lot more money? If there's an article or something on how all the leagues relate to each other, a food chain or something, that would also be helpful.

When do you believe that we will self destruct?

We appear to be getting into deeper doo-doo throughout the world every day. When do you think that we will destroy this earth and self destruct?

Looking to buy a used SUV?

I am shopping around for SUV's (used) and looking to spend about $7,000. What's a good, reliable, fuel efficient SUV - I am thinking Jeep or GMC... I don't want to buy something that will start self destructing in a matter of months as whatever vehicle I buy will have some decent mileage on it. Thanks

Can i join your black ops clan... easy points?

I really want to join a ps3 black ops clan. If you have one leave your psn name please so that i can add you. I am prestieg 2 level 37. I am good in team deathmatch, search and destroy, headcorters, free for all. I can play other games too and i usually do good in sabotage and domination. Thanks very easy ten points

Why would a recruiter want to know which other companies I have interviews with?

I am a mechanical engineer, and have never worked with a technical recruiting firm before. I interviewed with them 2 weeks ago, and they liked me. The position they had for me fell through, so they said they would let me know when something else came through with my expertise. I spoke with the recruiter today, and he asked me if I had any other prospects. I told him I had an interview tomorrow and he asked what company it was and who I was meeting. Is this typical? I am concerned that he will sabotage my interview, cause he gets paid by placing me himself.

Is it treason for conservatives to withhold hiring jobs to commit economical sabotage for Obama to take blame?

yeah i agree, companies are refusing to hire and running short staffed just to make obama look bad, we should force them to hire, oh wait they can't because they have no money, and they have no money because they have no business, and why is that? maybe because were in a recession. and its all obamas fault., and in his words "get use to it"

Sunday, July 17, 2011

Fallout 3: Fawkes After Raven Rock Missing?

You need to have the highest good karma to get Fawkes in the first place. He/she ( or it ) will only join you if you have high karma, so I would reload a save before you go into Raven Rock and get good karma, and then try it again.

For all retired or current military members?

It comes down to this, active= full time job, reserve= part-time job. You only have to be 18 to join the military.

Would You Date A Quiet Solditary Type Of Guy?

I would not date you. Sorry, but I like people who like people. Not to say you *dislike* people, but you don't seem to like them either. However, I might be attracted to your mysterious ways, but not attracted enough to date you. That said, we might end up being good friends... if I were someone you'd like to talk to me.

GUY HELP... I'm so confused! Does he like me, or what's going on?

No I would not continue to hang around another girl if I have a girlfriend. Too many jealousy issues and it's disrespectful.

Why do humans have a drive for meaning?

The drive for meaning is a drive to seek God. It is the drive to express who you really are. Unlike animals we have been given the gift of free will and a capacity to choose who we are and what we will become. So this drive is holy and keeps us forever seeking the light. So no matter how hard things might get, remember that you are never alone and you are never apart from God.

Why do humans have a drive for meaning?

You are only partially correct, the drive for meaning, whether intrinsic or as a personal agenda, is of great benefit to our species.

Moral Question: Should I rip the ticket or not?

Don't rip it. Doing that would make you no better then she is just give it back and be the bigger person.

Friends or more than friends?

I walked past him in the hall for the first time and he stopped and stared. That was six months ago. Every day in school we passed each other with a glance that made my heart jump. I've had a relationship with two of his good friends and he still seemed to like me. I now have started to talk to him but one of my so-called " Friends " has been trying to sabotage the whole relationship by telling him stuff from my past with guys which is making him mad at me. Right now I have a boyfriend who is quite boring and I guess I'm kinda into him. I know I could do better. Even my parents say I can. My and my guy friend still kind of like each other a lot and I don't really know what to do. I'm usually really good with this kind of stuff but now I'm just plain old confused. Please help me with my problem.

How can I get a press pass for a movie screening?

How can I get a press pass for an advanced movie screening? I've been going to screenings for a couple months now, but I always have to get there at least an hour early if I want to get a good seat -- and I've noticed that there are a bunch of seats reserved for members of the press. How can I get a press pass? I've been writing movie reviews online for quite some time, including on Facebook and on Examiner.com, but I can't figure out how to get a press pass. Thanks!! (I'm in Boston, by the way)

How to sabotage my friends date?

His fatass is going on a date with a girl I really like. He doesn't know I like her. How can I sabotage it? I want to do this because his fatass is a player and will break her heart. Please help!!!

Wtf do i do? im borderline and self destructing...?

you should have listened to your cowboy-morman dentist when he said to brush your teeth,floss,and kill yourself every night

I am a nihilist among other things.......Is this crazy or normal?

Society is insane. Not you. I wish there were more people like you. I think very similarly to you actually :)

Movies like get rich or die trying, 8 mile, etc?

im looking for a movie like Before i self destruct, hustle and flow, boyz in the hood and those type but i cant really find a lot and also id like it to be streaming on netflix that way i can watch it when i go to be does anybody have any ideas????

Fallout NV Brotherhood of Steel: Self Destruct Terminal Password?

does anyone know the actual password? becuase i have 2 keycards but i got caught pickpocketing so i cant get the last one so i need to do it this way>

In self-destruct mode post being dumped - how do I get over this?

Hi there, guess it takes a while to get over this especially if it ended with unexplained reason. On the other hand, I feel that you are lucky. Why do I say that. Because if he walks out of a relationship so easily without any reason, he will most likely walk out of a marriage easily without any reason. Worst if you have kids and the stress level will be tremendous. I feel that you have to be nice to yourself. First of all, reduce the number of night partying. To think well, you need a healthy mind, to have a healthy mind you need a healthy lifestyle. Pick up a sport or hobby that you like, it would be good if it takes some concentration. Cos it helps your mind to deviate from where it is sinking. Sometime to look at a piece of art with admiration and feeling, you cannot stand too near to look at the art work. You have a take a step back. Allow yourself to take a step back and look at the issue clearly rather than clouding your mind with imaginations and guesses trying to figure out what went wrong. Maybe it is time to move on. Sometime in life, hiccups like this do happen and this is a chance to learn to be strong. From what I gather in your message, I feel that you are not that old and still have time to know more friends, one day, you may come across someone who is even better. Till then, you will recall this and find that it is great that you have let it go. Stay strong! All the best and remember to love your heart and mind cos if you don't, no one else will.

Why are these two scenarios morally different?

the difference between the two is that in the first one, you have a choice to save two lives, or one. in the second, the choice is between allowing 2 people to die because there is nothing to do, or purposefully kill one person to save the other two. the difference is intent, one is an accident no matter the choice, the second you have the intent to kill someone. I'm christian.

Is the inability to maintain long term relationships a sign of a bigger problem?

You have a problem with real intimacy--the kind that builds over time. When you get to that point, you start feeling uncomfortable and making excuses for moving on. Sound familiar? If so, you might be able to benefit from some counseling. You are definitely missing out.

Parents stealing and destroying childrens property?

What you can do in the future to prevent such situations is listen to your parents. As you are under 18 more than likely and you live in their house, your dad had every right to do what he did. You own nothing.

Why does my friend flirt with men who show interest in me?

We're in our early 30's and have been friends for 6 yrs. Any time we're out and men are around and start up a conversation with me she either starts telling them things about me that aren't very nice, like something stupid about how my hair looks. Or if after talking to a guy and I walk away, she'll come up to the guy and start up a conversation with them or start flirting. It makes me soo angry and hurt that someone I consider a best friend would do this. AND she has a boyfriend. It happens pretty often and a lot of times I didn't bring it up to her, but this last time she started talking to a guy that I had just walked away from. I watched her do the whole thing. I was so angry that the next morning I said something to her. She denied it and lied about what actually happened, said I was rude to say such things and I should have gotten the facts right. I was right there, 10 ft away from her and saw her walk up to him and start talking to him and flirting. Even asking him what him and I were talking about. Now she's making it like I'm the bad friend for accusing her of such a thing and that what I claim to see didn't happen. What would you do? Should i just drop her as a friend? Right now I don't want to see or talk to her. I have a huge problem w/ friends who lie and tired of her shady ways of hitting on sabotaging things for me w/ men. Any thoughts, or anyone have a similar experience, what did you do?

How do i get my mom to stop thinking im suicidal?

i took 40 benadryl pills and she now thinks that i was trying to self destruct . i have told her that i wasnt , and she wont believe me, she then says "you subconciously were". she thinks im crazy for doing this but im NOT!!!! i just did it to see what it would feel like, i was bored and just did it at night time and thought it would wear off in the morning and nobody would notice, unfortunately, i was still intoxicated in the morning and afternoon the next day, she wanted to take me to the hospital. why does she think im suicidal

Is Oxford a nice city?

I am going to Uni there in September, is it nice, is it fun, is there a good social scene, is it a safe city? Are the shops good? Is there anyhting interesting and unique there, as in touristy? I live in Ireland, and am going there on an exchange thingy for a while, I'm originally from England, I'm English, I know South East London very well, that's where I'm from. I also would know Manchester some what but not as good as London. What would be the cheapest way to get down to South East London from Oxford like for the weekend? What kind of people will be there in Oxford, will it be mostly English, will there be many Americans, Europeans, Asian, Australians etc? Do you think I'll like it, is it a friendly city, or is it quite reserved, I would like to make lots of new friends! Is the nightlife good, what about gay bars, do they have any there? What is the gay scene like in Oxford are the boys/men good looking, I'm bisexual you see! :)

When the military destroys a downed blackhawk (as they did capturing bin Laden), do they use grenades or...?

Do the choppers have a built in self destruct mechanism to ensure all the technology is thoroughly destroyed?

How difficult is it for an older prior service to join the Air Force Reserves?

I'm an older (35 yo) male, single/no kids, with a bachelors degree who served almost 9 yrs in the Navy and separated in 2003 with an honorable discharge as an E6. I would like to join the Air Force Reserves now. I understand I meet the age requirements but what is the likelihood of joining at the same rank of E6? Down the road, is it difficult to go active duty once you've been in the reserves awhile? Thanks in advance for any advice.

What is this movie about dogs?

I remember vaguely about this. This person wants to take part in a dog-sledding race. Then there are people who are also in it and try to sabotage him e.g cut the rope of the sled But the person emerge as first anyway. I think there are something about the Northern Lights.

ONE, Where is the body? TWO, where are the photographs? THREE, if you were Bin Laden wouldn't you have.......?

let me ask you this, would osama bin laden let this happen? if he were alive do you really think he would allow americans to celebrate? he would immediately send a tape, or have a building blew up, not just sit there, it is imperative that he let people know he is alive, that's half of his job.

My pc is being attacked, what do i do in this situation?

my search engines are down (all of them) and I can't look up a cure on the internet. my system restore says something about being "blocked by a group" so my last resort option is gone. this AVG security thing isn't doing it's job, and I have no idea how to combat this virus on my computer. I know that somewhere on my system, something is sabotaging it from the inside, or else AVG would have done something about it. so what course of action can I take so I can get rid of this virus and not have to delete everything from my hard drive?

Why can't I download this app?!?

I have 880mb left on my iPod Touch 8gb, but when I try to download Street Fighter IV Volt which is 381mb, it says I don't have enough space. There is no space reserved for disk use. Please help.

Why do females now talk about multiple sex partners openly and freely as if it is normal?

Is it normal now? I find it inappropriate and disgusting and demeaning and self sabotaging. I had a conversation with a girl a month ago. She said specifically that her friends like to find guys and F__k. I said wow that's really trashy. I never thought she would be offended but, as it turned out, she too like to "hook up" and said that certain women fall into different demographics. I said that all females want a monogamous relationship and if they said they didn't they were lying. At any rate. She didn't like me and I think she's a whore that I could never respect or get along with. What are your opinions on this matter?

Why did Liberal Marxists sabotage Newt Gingrich's presidential campaign from the inside?

LMAO just 2 weeks ago you guys were singing his name. Now he's a liberal? You just can't get over the fact that Republicans have NO ONE credible to run against Obama and that you all look fools for supporting Gingrich in the first place. No one put a gun to your head and forced you to praise Gingrich.

Did the republicans sell out or are they just secretly waiting for the dems/fed to self destruct?

when the democrats fail and the federal gov shuts down for good, it'll be nice to see business finally prosper

I was born insecure and self centered ?

Find yourself... what I mean is, if you know what is "wrong" with you, then write these things down. Then make another list of how you "want" to be and find yourself within that list. Cheers

Can I sue a prior customer for defamation of character on my business?

Collect the posts, and contact a lawyer. If the charges are unfounded, and you have lost business, you can sue her for libel.

Saturday, July 16, 2011

Have you ever felt like you were self-destructing?

yes, very often. I cut and physically abuse me, I dont eat enough and when I do eat I feel sick and have to stop eating for a long time, and I isolate myself and only trust three people. I am paranoid also..

I don't know what to do with my life, please I need some advice?

I think there are so many options I can see why you are confused. When in doubt, do nothing right away. You have listed the pros and cons of each move very well. Is your boyfriend your age? Is tatooing for the rest of your life appealing even if you could take your pets and your grandma? That is a huge question to ask yourself. Give yourself more days to ponder this. Not sure the cause of your bad home life but sounds like you need a change and if you go with your boyfriend you can get a job first of all. Set a date like the 4th or something to decide. Dont think about this issue all day but rather set aside mornings or certain times to deliberate it and do research on job possibilities you could get with your boyfriend. Im thinking that it might be worth living with him as an escape from your home life and that would in itself allow you clearer thinking but you really havent known him that long. Hmm. Good luck

Should The World Have Ended Yet Or Is It Later On Today?

Not until after 6.00 pm GMT when all of the football results are in and as West Ham have already been relegated it may well have happened last week :-(

What are the real issues facing America today?

Democrats and Republicans just like to argue and defend their positions; it's sort of like a sport. They also do this to avoid these issues because they probably don't know a good solution to them. There have been times when issues like these have been tried to have been solved, but they were only made even worse.

How to get out of guilt and be normal?

I am 15 years old. I have some recent problems in my life? Now I feel like a lunatic, like I got paranoia or shizophrenia. I have bad friends, no true friends. They are acting crazy and stupid in school. After spending the times with them I have realized that I am starting to be a lunatic. I think they stupify me. I have bad grades, I starting to feel like I am eccentric person but infact I act normally unlike other people. Which draws me to another conclusion that most of other people are crazy and I am the among the most normal. I was a fool when I was younger but I was not a full fool, I was conscious and knew what I did. Last years I feel like a invalid, like I got memory lack, I can't finish something, I feeled stupid, I lost creativity. I think that I am crazy inside, but normal outside. But the stupid thing is that no one recognizes me to be crazy, except they say I am a retard which is false and misconcepted belief among friends. My guilt is irrational and I think it destroys my personality and self-esteem. I feel neglected. The friends I visit in school are bastards, they just laugh, make nonesense, stupify themselves, humiliate others and make my day worser. I feel against myself, like I want to banish myself I see often others and think that I am the worst. I did sexual things which make me guilty, I sucked my penis male organ, I have a asymmetrical penis maybe from masturbation, I got asymmetrical testicles which is weird, I have pubic hair loss which is disguisting, I feel like I ruined my body, I feel like ill, but there are others who are ill, I have problems with my mentality, it's because of the idiotic society in which I live, school friends actually. I try to think positive in order to be normal, but I can't I only think of deaths, tragedies and failure. I seem I cannot accept myself, I cannot accept myself that I am discriminated and beaten (mentally) from the idiots. I feel mindless. But I can't even accept worse. There is worse, there are people who cutted their penis male organ, there are homosexuals who suck others male organ, there are castrated males, there are people that are chronically insane. I have some visual pictures about something that makes me distracted, I hear songs. Among society, I am sometimes anxious, I am anxious, neurotic. I feel in a society as the most low level valued person, I respect others but no one has something human in themselfs. Among the society the most honest person. How can I get out of this irrational, stupifying, crazy, self-destructing mentality and be like others. And not to be bothered with the "demons" in my head. How can I be normal inside and to be normal do I have to get out of a crazy society? And I need to banish my stupid guilt.

Do i have Manic Depression?

I can't stop feeling suicidal i feel like i'm self destructing i have mood swings, extremely poor sleep pattern, constant feelings of suicide, i never go out the house. i've heard left-handers are more prone to being moody aswell which i'm left handed. I've been the doctors and he proscribed me some sleeping tablets but they are making me sleep too much in the daytime. I've been told that i'm agoraphobic aswell by relatives but what does it sound like from an outside point of view?

How to not be insecure in a relationship?

Don't let the example of your parents ruin your relationships. You have trust issues. But has your current relationship had any trouble and has the other person given you any reason to doubt their motives or intentions? Going to a therapist could really help, they can help you get rid of the pent up bad feelings and make you see clearer. Your significant other is not trying to hurt you or else they wouldn't be in a relationship with you to begin with.

Help with social intimacy issues?

It sounds like youre afraid that the other person won't like you.You just need to let go and be yourself. and don't care if the other person doesn't like you. In most cases, though, the other person will like you and youll surprise yourself.

Do you think Republicans are going to be able to stonewall job creation until after the elections?

You kind of answered your own question with that paragraph of information which your provided for yourself on the other not for your bottom two questions - I am a Republican and I would vote for a Republican President just as many others would I don't think that the people who do vote Republican think it is "stupid" either. They are not prolonging the recession if you ask me the Democrats are. Continuous spending and borrowing is getting us nowhere really fast.

Brutal honesty regarding my poem?

Go on writing poems. It is expression of your own mind. Don't wait for others to read or comment on it.It is your own thought process,prevail it.Successful persons also suffered in the beginning, later they acquired their name and fame both. Have patience to explore.

Boy and friend problems. Three part question. Please, I need help!?

Hi, so I understand your frustration and everything. I know it might be difficult, but I think you should tell this guy "we,need to talk" and call him rather than text. Tell him that you would like to meet up with him and talk to him and explain everything to him. There is nothing worse than stupid drama. I am 23 and I don't really communicate with many if any friends from high school anymore, they all think I am funny and I am liked but people change you know. I think it would be a shame for you to lose you friends that you have known for so long over a guy that you haven't know the same amount of time or longer. Think about all the times that you shared and memories you have made with her and ask yourself if you want to not be friends with her anymore. I work at sam's club in metairie, LA and I am madly in love with redheads. The first girl I dated we met when I was 17 and she was 15 and we broke up when I was 21. It felt like we grew up together and we did fight a lot but I grew to love her soooo much and so much so that we collected notes we wrote to eachother in high school and movies tickets and everything and I still have everything. Well about 6 months ago I met this other redhead that demos an energy drink on the weekends and I'm telling you this because actually I think we dated for almost a year but we still work together but we broke up now and now we have to see eachother a lot. We broke up because she does drugs but like you said, imagine seeing you friend everyday after you friendship ends badly. It is awkward for her and I know because I have to help her with things but she is dating someone else now and she purposely invites him for lunch grrrr. Anyway I hope I helped any and I hope you work everything out

In Bangladesh who has the combination to 'Self Destruct' ?

Very much so. There are many factors affecting Bangladesh such as natural events, decaying moral values, corruption,. religious radicalism and lack of infrastructure.

We're supposed to meet this weekend but he hasn't contacted me yet? If I text him will it look desperate?

We met months ago and I told him I wanted to be friends at first to get to know each other. We went out 3 times and then his mother became ill and we fell out of contact as he was spending all his time with her plus he has a very busy job. Then a couple of weeks ago we got in contact again and he invited me for a coffee last week. We got on great. I was telling him about a friend's wedding I had been at and he said 'now we'll have to get married. Aren't you going to marry?' I smiled 'I'm on my own at the moment'. Then I was telling him that I'm having problems in the house I'm in at the moment and he said 'you're welcome to come over and stay a bit in my place'. (I've been to his place before and he was very gentlemanly and respectful). Last Friday we spoke and he said that this weekend I'm invited to his place. I told him I enjoyed our get together and I could hear a bit of embarassment in his voice. He's quite reserved. Then I said 'ok, you call me as you have a much busier schedule than I do at the moment'. So I put the ball back to his court. He's not the type to openly compliment but he is very kind to me. I also mentioned I'm taking salsa clases and he said he wants to come with me one time. We're both 30+, single and no children. Here's my problem, he hasn't called/texted and seeing as he said we'd meet this weekend, I'm a bit upset. Should I text him?

(10 pts...)Plzzz help... How Do I....?

Okay so I work with this guy, He is 31 and I am 25. Now I know this is going to sound pretty pathetic, but we both want to kiss each other but are afraid to make the move. But I decided I am going to make the move. Since he is taking tooooo long to to do it. I think most of reason is because of our cultural differences, he's from Russia, and is more reserved. I am from US, and are bi-racial of course. American ways!!! lol.. But we are both christian and have same beliefs. We are in the property mgmt business. He does maintenance, I work in office! So what are some good ideas to get him alone so I can just kiss him. A good passionate one! BTW: Our employer knows about us and is perfectly fine with it!!! We are just shy people

Do they have a pins program in the UK?

I know they have them in america but are there any in the UK??? Incase your wondering a pins program is run by probation workers where they help your child before they go down the self destruct road and help them with school life

Where is the best place to get a response on love advice?

I had a boyfriend (Kristin) who gave me all of himself to me. His family accepted me for who I am and changed my life. I did something REALLY stupid and the family including Kristin gave me an ultimatum about two paths I can choose from...I felt really ashamed about the whole incident, I didn't want to choose the path that involved him in my life because (1) I have the tendency to feel I don't deserve much, so I self-destruct my life and (2) I was petrified of the commitment. After that, two weeks later I replaced those broken feelings with hope of a new relationship with my new boyfriend (Eric) but, its not working. There is not a day that goes by without Kristin in my mind. I am in love with this man. The problem is, I put myself in a pickle. I am living with my new boyfriend and don't want to hurt his feelings by leaving him for the man I am truly in love with. Not just that, I don't want to beg the family to let me back in since I abandoned them! I know now that life is miserable without Kristin in my life. I love him. Someone out there help! I feel trapped in my own irrational decisions! What should I do?

Need some advice for my future!?

ok so im an 18 tear old who just graduated from high school. im enlisted in the marines but waiting on a medical waiver to leave for boot camp which is going to take a few months to come in. im having second thoughts of my future. my ultimate goal is to be a mass state trooper. i know that a high majority of troopers are ex marines.well at least for mass, of course my family keeps telling me not to go and i cant go to none of them for advice because theyll all tell me to stay and its kind of making me think that marines might not be the best option for me even though its been a dream of mine, ive been looking at becoming a full time student and getting a degree in criminal justice and then becoming a state trooper. im just not sure what route i should take go into the marines or be a full time student. i know u can go to school in the marines but i wanna go active not reserves. some opinions could be useful please ?

How can I find happiness?

I know that I am very fortunate to have the things that I have in life. There are very many people that dreamed they had some of the things I have. I have a beautiful baby girl, a wonderful husband. We are all in fairly decent health. We are okay financially. My husband works out of town for about 7 straight months out of the year. Our daughter and I stay with my husband in corporate housing suites most of that time. We are about 6 hours from home. I feel so isolated most days because my husband works so much and I don't have many conversations with adults. I do not want my husband to quit his job because I know he enjoys it and the benefits are great but I just think it is taking it's toll on me emotionally. I am not a very outgoing person and the more I isolate myself from the outside world the more unhappy I become. I don't even know if I suffer from depression because sometimes I feel like I am just sabotaging myself. I feel like I always look for the negative with everything. I don't know why I do it. It's like I have no control. How can I start to change my way of thinking so I can think more positively? Please don't tell me to just do it because it's not that easy. I need some sort of inspiration. Thanks!

Is her weight loss destructing her body?

My sister has lost a ton of weight in a very short time. It's been two weeks and she's dropped nearly thirty pounds. She runs and swims every day, doesn't eat much, and is usually so tired she can't sleep. She is always complaining about sore bones too. Lately she has been having trouble controlling things like her bladder, twitching, and loss of vision. She hasn't eaten for three days because it makes her "feel sick." Is there something going on?

EBay bid question reserve not met?

I Accidentally bid on an item with the eBay mobile app for .99 but it says reserve not met anyway, so does it matter? And will my bid be ignored anyway? And will I be charged?

Is it alright to have a HUGE breakfast while losing wieght?

well im trying to loose wieght and i have been succesful but i havent been eating breakfast. i always hear that breakfast helps wieght loss and keeps u from overeating and stuff so i wanted to try eating breakfast every day. so this morning i ate like 2 huge bowls of speciol k, and im afraid this is going to sabotage my wieghtloss. but if i dont eat much for the rest of the day, like no lunch or dinner, will i still be on track?

Just a simple timetable for hostel room reservations?

I am rather new to php but I got a request for adding a php automated bed booking system to add to the existing accounting system. I have looked every where and can only find complete systems. Can someone please point me in the right direction? All i need is a simplistic table that automatically displays a reserved block based on date ranges from a mysql db. Thanks a lot in advance.

Would an Aries woman sabotage a picture of someone just?

to make herself look better? Like say if she had 40 pictures you 2 took together, but she only posted 2 on face book, and they were the ones you looked really bad in, and the ones you looked good in she cut you out. Would an Aries woman do this on purpose or accident? I am thinking she wants her face book to be like a shrine where she is the only one who is allowed to look cute. Can I be imagining this? I am thinking she did this to me twice now (two separate occasions). I have seen the pics and I know some of me turned out good, but I see those ones. She says she "loses" them.

Is it recommended that she gets Psychological evaluation? Is she in DANGER?

I would definitely recommend seeing a therapist/psychologist ASAP. I suffer from extreme social anxiety and I am constantly worrying about what others think of me and i cant physically stop it. I am no longer able to go to school due to waking up every morning with an excrutiatingly painful migraine caused by my anxiety. I would say stop doing all drugs except for weed. i think that weed is what keeps me happy and healthy ill never stop smoking in my entire life as far as i can see and it can help with the eating and weight problems. But if you feel sort of addicted and start to get desperate for a buzz then just force yourself not to try anything else because that is what starts the gateway drug affect. About the abuse, all i can really say is i feel terribly sorry but the only person who can rlly help u is a therapist/psychologist. And dont be afraid to open up to one and be vulnerable cus thats the only way to fix your problems. Also be patient, the therapist will have to see what in your mind is causing your problems and then they can work from there. They WILL NOT judge you and they will be very supportive. Also if the first therapist you see doesnt help then keep looking. Im on my third one and only til now have i really felt i can truly open up.

Should I feel guilty about breaking up with him?

His parents have called me names, he has done many hurtful things like, not respecting me, always threatening to kick me out or get a restraining order, abusing me, not being supportive of my career, trying to sabotage my success, doesn't treat my like a girlfriend or respect me, makes me his servant, expects massages, pedicures, haircuts, facials, me to wait on him hand and foot, doesn't want me to have time for myself, gets mad if i try to spend time with anyone else, spends all the holidays, special occassions with his family and his family hates me and I barely seen them 3 times the whole time i have dated him. They hate me because i didn't come out and visit when they were over which i didn't want to see them in the first place. They were there to see their son and on the first day they were bossing me around and his parents were putting me and my dog down. So I stayed in my room the rest of the time they were here to avoid conflict. I can't seem to get past the fact his dad said i was a piece of ****. I don't even know his father. I just have a lot of hurt from this relationship and he doesn't let me move on.

What would you do in my shoes? Im really broken...?

ummmm i have no idea what your saying but that part when you said spare me thereligiouss talk was prettyawesomee i should start usin that now Hah so thx for that sorry i was a waste of space and comment annnd am i still commentingggg uhmmm yes

Should I Use Dugtrio Or Graveler(Pokemon Fire Red)?

I would go for dugtrio because it is in its third state of evolution and has chances of learning all possible moves but graveller has to be traded to make it evolve.I f you can trade then graveller would be a better choice

Question about pre-ordering?

So I put a reserve on a Xbox 360 game: Naruto Ultimate Ninja Storm 2 and put 5 bucks down on it, it's been a long time since the game came out and it dropped in price to new - 40 and 35 - used can I used my reserve on a used copy so it drops down to 30?

How long should I wait to hear from this guy?

We met months ago and I told him I wanted to be friends at first to get to know each other. We went out 3 times and then his mother became ill and we fell out of contact as he was spending all his time with her plus he has a very busy job. Then a couple of weeks ago we got in contact again and he invited me for a coffee last week. We got on great. I was telling him about a friend's wedding I had been at and he said 'now we'll have to get married. Aren't you going to marry?' I smiled 'I'm on my own at the moment'. Then I was telling him that I'm having problems in the house I'm in at the moment and he said 'you're welcome to come over and stay a bit in my place'. I said 'where will I sleep?' He said 'on the sofa'. (I've been to his place before and he was very gentlemanly and respectful. Last Friday we spoke and he said that this weekend I'm invited to his place. I told him I enjoyed our get together and I could hear a bit of embarassment in his voice. He's quite reserved. Then I said 'ok, you call me as you have a much busier schedule than I do at the moment/ He's not the type to openly compliment but he is very kind to me. I also mentioned I'm taking salsa clases and he said he wants to come with me one time. We're both 30+, single and no children. Do you think I'll hear from him? When, seeing as he said we'd meet this weekend?

Do these college kids who protested Governor Walker know what they are protesting?

no. look at the left wingers trying to fool people with their lies and obfuscation, they think all people are as ignorant as those who drink their kool aid.

Who control the exchange rate policy?

The Federal Reserve does NOT control the exchange rate. Exchange rates are determined every day by auction in currency markets around the world. With the exception of China, all the others you list are determined the same way.

Why is this happening?

Well your trainer probably doesn't think your ready. Going from 2' to 2'6 when you haven't even jumped it is a pretty big change. Even though you do very well in the 2' eq. you might not be able to jump 2'6 well.

UCMJ adultry question?

I have a really good friend who just confided in me that she had cheated on her husband when they were going through a divorce. They ended up working things out and she admitted her wrong doings to her husband. The complication comes when, the co-actor is army reserve. she is Air force reserve and the husband is active duty army. The co-actor is pissed and wants to tell the chain of command about the wife's wrong doings. He does have photographs, so there is proof. BUT the threatened her with "either give me 3grand tonight by midnight or I will tell." which is exthorsion. She has text messages. This is all a huge mess. She and her husband have made peace with this issue but this guy is trying to stir up trouble. any thoughts on what can happen to her?